In a recent episode of The Patient from Hell podcast, host Samira Daswani spoke with Alyssa Wakeley, a stage three breast cancer survivor and founder of Warriors That Pray. Their conversation explored how a life-altering diagnosis became the foundation of a deeper faith journey—and how one woman’s personal healing evolved into a mission of connection and hope for other cancer patients.
What happens to your faith when you're diagnosed with cancer?
It’s a question many cancer patients quietly wrestle with. For Alyssa, faith didn’t erase her fear or suffering—but it gave her direction. She spoke honestly about feeling overwhelmed. “You're allowed to feel that way,” she said. “You're allowed to be mad.”
Rather than offering polished answers, Alyssa reflects on the hard moments: the pleading, the doubt, and the determination to keep going. “I didn’t get to choose the journey,” she said. “But I wanted to walk through it as a light to others.”
Can prayer help during cancer treatment?
For Alyssa, it absolutely did—especially the prayers of others. “In that season, I really lacked prayer for myself,” she shared. “But the prayers around me were immense.” For many patients who feel powerless, knowing others are advocating spiritually on their behalf can bring comfort and strength.
Whether someone comes from a Christian background or a different belief system, Alyssa sees prayer as a universal expression of care. “It’s something everyone can do,” she said. Warriors That Pray was created with that spirit—turning prayer into something you can hold and wear.
How did Warriors That Pray start?
The idea began when Alyssa was recovering from chemotherapy and wanted to thank the women in her church group who had supported her. She started beading simple bracelets with crosses on them—first as gifts, then as a way to stay connected and creative during her healing.
In 2023, that personal project became a mission. Warriors That Pray now operates on a buy-one-give-one model: for every bracelet sold, one is gifted to a cancer warrior. “It’s about connection,” Alyssa said. “Something small that says, ‘You’re not alone.’”
What helps emotionally when going through breast cancer?
One of the most common emotional needs during cancer is to feel supported. Alyssa's bracelets offer just that—an everyday reminder that someone is thinking of you, cheering for you, and holding space for your healing. “Every time you look down, it’s motivation. Encouragement. Hope,” she said.
She also created a Prayer Corner on her website where anyone can submit a request for prayer. For patients who feel isolated or unsure how to ask for support, it's a safe, quiet way to feel seen.
How do you support someone with breast cancer?
Alyssa’s advice is clear: be present. Whether it’s offering to help with logistics, attending appointments, or simply checking in, support comes in many forms. “My mom came to every appointment,” she said. “Even at 27, that meant everything to me.”
She encourages faith communities to go beyond words and take action. “Don’t just say you’ll pray—actually pray. Reach out. Be intentional.” Her bracelets are just one example of how small gestures can make a big difference.
How can faith-based communities support cancer patients?
If you’re part of a religious or spiritual group, Alyssa recommends reaching out early and consistently. Cancer can feel isolating—and many patients won’t ask for help, even when they need it. Prayer, care packages, or a thoughtful message can go a long way in letting someone know they aren’t forgotten.
Her organization partners with hospitals and boutiques to distribute bracelets, including at MD Anderson in Jacksonville, Florida. As the mission grows, so does its reach—and impact.
What impact can something as simple as a bracelet really have?
Alyssa shared the story of a local fashion designer who quietly reached out after a diagnosis. Alyssa offered support, referrals, and later sent her a bracelet. A year later, the woman texted: she was at a follow-up appointment, had just bought another bracelet, and thanked Alyssa for the encouragement that helped her keep going. “It’s not just jewelry,” Alyssa said. “It’s a reminder that someone cares.”
What advice would you give to someone newly diagnosed with cancer?
“Take it one day at a time,” Alyssa said. “Focus on small victories.” For those who feel overwhelmed or frozen by fear, that mindset can be grounding. Don’t worry about the finish line—just take the next step.
Is it okay to ask for help during cancer?
Absolutely. In fact, it’s necessary. Alyssa, a young mom at the time of her diagnosis, stresses how important it is to build a support network and accept help. “It will be the biggest blessing,” she said. “Don’t try to do it all yourself.”
Alyssa Wakeley’s journey is a powerful reminder that healing goes far beyond physical recovery. It’s emotional, spiritual, and deeply human. Whether through prayer, presence, or a handmade bracelet, she’s created a way for people to feel held—even in their hardest moments.
To learn more or support her work, visit warriorsthatpray.com.
Listen to the full interview on The Patient from Hell, available wherever you get your podcasts.
